Urs k laghwi meaning hain SHADI, eshe liay dulhan ko uroos kehty hain, buzurgaan-e-deen ki tareekh-e-wafaat ko urs es liay kaha jata hai kyun k Mashkaat shareef k aik hadees k mutabiq jub farishty qabr main buzurgaan-e-deen ka imtehan leity hain aur jub wo kamyaad ho jaty hain tou farishhty kehty hain:"Soo ja jeisy aik dulhan soti hai".(Mishkaat Shareef,, Baab: Azaab-ul-Qabr, Page:25)
Tou dulhan sey es liay tashbeeh di gai kyun k dulhan aisy soti hai k siwai es k piyary k koi esy utha nahi sakta, lehaza es nisbat sey buzurgaan-e-deen k yoom-e-wafaat ko urs kaha jata hai.Es ki aik aur waja yeh bhi hai k jeisa k sub janty hain k yeh wo din hai k qabr main AAQA kareem صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم ki ziyarat honi hai, farishty qabr main AAQA ka jalwa dikha per poochty hain k tu in k bary main kya kehta hai jo KHALQAT k dulha hain.Urs ki haqeeqat sirh yeh hai k es din sahib-e-qabr ki qabr ki ziarat ki jai, quran kuani ki jai, esal-e-sawab kia jai, aur zikr-e-kheir kia jai, aur in sub cheezon ka saboot Quran-o-Hadees sey sabit hai:
Ziarat-e-Qaboor:-Musanif ibn-e-Abi Sheiba ney riwayat ki k AAQA kareem صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم her saal uhad k shohada ki qabr per tashreef ley jaty they".(Musanif Abdur-Razzaq, V:3, Page:573)(Umda-ul-Qaari, V:8, Page:70)
-AAQA kareem صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم ney fermaya:"Main ney tumhain qabr ki ziarat sey mana kia tha, laikin ab tum qabr ki ziarat kia karo".(Sahi Muslim, Hadees:106)
-"Qabr ki ziarat kia karo, kyun k yeh duniya sey beyrughbati ka sabab hai aur aakhrat ki yaad dilati hai".(Sanan, Ibn-e-Maaja, Hadees:1571)
-Esal-e-Sawab kerna:
ALLAH عزوجل quran-e-kareem main fermata hai:"Kis ney haram ki ALLAH ki wo zeenat jo es ney apny bandon k liay nikali aur wo paak rizq".(Sura Aaraf, Verse:32)
Ahadees:
-"Huzoor صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم ney aik mertaba qurbani ki aur goosht ko samney rukh ker yeh dua fermai, Aey ALLAH عزوجل yeh qurbani meri ummat ki taraf sey hai".(Sunan Abi Daood, V:2, Page:30)
-Hazoor صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم ki khaidmat main aik sahabi hazir huay aur fermaya, meri maa ka achanak inteqal ho gaya hai, kya main koi sadqa karon tou eska sawab unhain pohanchy ga, Hazoor صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم ney fermaya haan, phir aik kuwaan khudwaya gaya aur us per baqaida likhwaya gaya k in sahabi ki maa k liay.(Sunan Abi Daood, Hadees:2875)
-Hazoor صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم ney Hajj k dooran, aik ounth aur aik cow ko 7 musalmano ki taraf sey zibah kerwaya.(Sahi Muslim, Hadees:3026)
Qabr Waalo ko Salam Kerna:"AAQA kareem her saal shohada ki qabr per tashreef ley jaty aur inko salam fermaty, sath main charoon khulfa bhi hoty wo bhi aisa kerty".(Al-Dur-e-Mansoor, Fi-Tafseer Bal-masoor, V:4, Page:641)
ALLAH ki zikr sey Maiyat ko sakoon pohanchta hai:Hadees-e-Pak main aata hai:"Huzoor صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم ney perha سبحان اللہ , phir perha اللہ اکبر , deegar hazraat ney bhi perha, logon ney arz ki aisa kyun kia, fermaya aik saleh bandey per qabr tang ho gai thi, ALLAH عزوجل ney eski berkat sey qabr ko kushada ker dia".(Musnid Imam Ahmed Bin Hunbal, V:3, Page:360)
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Tou dulhan sey es liay tashbeeh di gai kyun k dulhan aisy soti hai k siwai es k piyary k koi esy utha nahi sakta, lehaza es nisbat sey buzurgaan-e-deen k yoom-e-wafaat ko urs kaha jata hai.Es ki aik aur waja yeh bhi hai k jeisa k sub janty hain k yeh wo din hai k qabr main AAQA kareem صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم ki ziyarat honi hai, farishty qabr main AAQA ka jalwa dikha per poochty hain k tu in k bary main kya kehta hai jo KHALQAT k dulha hain.Urs ki haqeeqat sirh yeh hai k es din sahib-e-qabr ki qabr ki ziarat ki jai, quran kuani ki jai, esal-e-sawab kia jai, aur zikr-e-kheir kia jai, aur in sub cheezon ka saboot Quran-o-Hadees sey sabit hai:
Ziarat-e-Qaboor:-Musanif ibn-e-Abi Sheiba ney riwayat ki k AAQA kareem صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم her saal uhad k shohada ki qabr per tashreef ley jaty they".(Musanif Abdur-Razzaq, V:3, Page:573)(Umda-ul-Qaari, V:8, Page:70)
-AAQA kareem صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم ney fermaya:"Main ney tumhain qabr ki ziarat sey mana kia tha, laikin ab tum qabr ki ziarat kia karo".(Sahi Muslim, Hadees:106)
-"Qabr ki ziarat kia karo, kyun k yeh duniya sey beyrughbati ka sabab hai aur aakhrat ki yaad dilati hai".(Sanan, Ibn-e-Maaja, Hadees:1571)
-Esal-e-Sawab kerna:
ALLAH عزوجل quran-e-kareem main fermata hai:"Kis ney haram ki ALLAH ki wo zeenat jo es ney apny bandon k liay nikali aur wo paak rizq".(Sura Aaraf, Verse:32)
Ahadees:
-"Huzoor صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم ney aik mertaba qurbani ki aur goosht ko samney rukh ker yeh dua fermai, Aey ALLAH عزوجل yeh qurbani meri ummat ki taraf sey hai".(Sunan Abi Daood, V:2, Page:30)
-Hazoor صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم ki khaidmat main aik sahabi hazir huay aur fermaya, meri maa ka achanak inteqal ho gaya hai, kya main koi sadqa karon tou eska sawab unhain pohanchy ga, Hazoor صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم ney fermaya haan, phir aik kuwaan khudwaya gaya aur us per baqaida likhwaya gaya k in sahabi ki maa k liay.(Sunan Abi Daood, Hadees:2875)
-Hazoor صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم ney Hajj k dooran, aik ounth aur aik cow ko 7 musalmano ki taraf sey zibah kerwaya.(Sahi Muslim, Hadees:3026)
Qabr Waalo ko Salam Kerna:"AAQA kareem her saal shohada ki qabr per tashreef ley jaty aur inko salam fermaty, sath main charoon khulfa bhi hoty wo bhi aisa kerty".(Al-Dur-e-Mansoor, Fi-Tafseer Bal-masoor, V:4, Page:641)
ALLAH ki zikr sey Maiyat ko sakoon pohanchta hai:Hadees-e-Pak main aata hai:"Huzoor صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم ney perha سبحان اللہ , phir perha اللہ اکبر , deegar hazraat ney bhi perha, logon ney arz ki aisa kyun kia, fermaya aik saleh bandey per qabr tang ho gai thi, ALLAH عزوجل ney eski berkat sey qabr ko kushada ker dia".(Musnid Imam Ahmed Bin Hunbal, V:3, Page:360)
جزاك الله خيرا